They rejected his decrees and the covenant he had made with their fathers and the warnings he had given them. They followed worthless idols and themselves became worthless (2 Kings 17:15).

This passage from 2 Kings is taken from a chapter explaining the deportation of Israel. Although God had pleaded with his people to abandon their idols and had sent his prophets to warn them of the impending consequences, they persisted. Because they refused to hear
God, he lifted his hand of protection. They were conquered by brutal Assyria and the majority of the Israelites were taken back to Assyria to serve as slaves.

The instructive verse is that they “followed worthless idols and themselves became worthless”. We become like the one we worship. We recognize that truth in the natural when we watch our children choose role models – maybe athletes, musicians, actors or other powerful and wealthy individuals. After a while those who “worship” the celebrity begin to dress like their idol, take on his/her mannerisms, speak like the one they long to be, and act like them in every way they can. In essence they want to become the person on whom they have set their affections. That can be a plus if the role model has great character, a humble spirit, and is a person of faith. On the other hand, if the role model is arrogant, boastful, overtly sexual, pro-drugs and alcohol, or violent then parents have cause to worry.

What about religious people? They too become like the God they worship or at least like God as they perceive him. If their God is gracious, long-suffering, forgiving, faithful, and just they will take on those characteristics over time. If he is a harsh, vindictive, score-keeping deity then they will begin to take on those qualities. If he is bent on the destruction of unbelievers then the faithful will develop that same bent. How we view and understand God is important. What we teach our children about God is of the utmost importance and how we model our God for others has profound implications. Since they assume that we are like our God then they will assume our God is like us.

To me one of the greatest theological statements in scripture is Christ’s declaration to Philip. “Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father” (Jn.14:9). No matter how I understand scripture the actions and attitudes of Jesus are unmistakable. When we watch his compassion for the poor, the destitute, the lame, the blind, the leper, the adulterous woman and the demon-possessed man we see the Father. When we see Jesus lay down his life for every sinner we see the Father. When we hear him intercede on the cross for those who have just abused and murdered him, we see the Father. When we see Jesus frustrated and angry in the face of hypocrisy and injustice, we see the Father. There is no other God like him.

Many of us have strange or uncertain perceptions of God. We may have picked up those perceptions from angry or absent Fathers, permissive parents, and abusive religious leaders or from the hack theology of those who have never encountered God. If we struggle with our view of the Father then we would do well to take Jesus at his word and look long and hard at him to know the Father’s heart.    It is important because we will become like the one we worship. If you realize that your life is a mess or that you have become a hurtful personthen you may want to consider two possibilities: either you have given God no thought at all or you have seen him through distorted lenses. Either way, Jesus is the answer. As the saying goes, “Wise men still seek him.”