Waiting is hard…especially, in a microwave world. Everything moves so fast. The entire world seems to change over night. Everything is microchipped and accelerated. We want faster foods, faster computers, and faster planes, faster weight loss…you name it. But in the spiritual realm, God does not measure progress by time but rather by growth. Waiting on God is hard, especially when his timetable does not match ours at all. Sometimes God is waiting on us while we are waiting on him.

I’m reminded of both Joseph and David. Both received amazing prophecies when they were young. Joseph got his in the form of prophetic dreams in which he saw his family bowing down to him. David received his when the prophet Samuel showed up, anointed him with oil, and declared that he would be king over Israel. My guess is that both young men anticipated the fulfillment of those prophecies within months of the moment they received them. Not only did they expect God to establish them in those prophetic roles, but also that their circumstances would soon begin to line up with their declared destinies.

Joseph, however, did not find his family as excited about his dreams as he was. Eventually, the arrogance of the young man stirred up resentment and even hatred among his older brothers. In response, they faked his death and sold him into slavery. He ended up not only far from home in Egypt, but in prison after false charges were lodged against him. Now, not only were months slipping by but years escaped him and the dreams that once excited him seemed impossible.

David’s prophecy seemed more likely in the beginning. He distinguished himself against Goliath and entered into King Saul’s service where, it seemed, he would learn the ropes of governing a nation. Everyone who knew the prophecy could see that he might be “interning” for his future role. But the better he served Saul, the more Saul felt threatened. David quickly lost his internship and became a wanted outlaw hiding in the deserts of Palestine. Many scholars estimate that David dodged Saul and his attempts to kill the young man for nearly eight years.   Not only were the years slipping by, but events looked as if the prophecy of Samuel had missed the mark by a mile. Even David thought, “One of these days I will be destroyed by the hand of Saul. The best thing I can do is escape to the land of the Philistines” (1 Sam.27:1).

I am certain that both Joseph and David began to seriously doubt that the prophecies about them would ever come to pass. Years slipped by and events seemed to hold no promise for their fulfillment. In fact, both men surely quit thinking about the prophecies altogether and simply focused on surviving the day – Joseph in an Egyptian prison and David in caves in the desert.

So why the turn of events? Why the delay and the hardships? All I can say is that they were in training…not so much in skills but in their hearts. Both had destinies to lead nations. They each needed to be part of a maturing process in character, faith, and perspectives. Humility – dependence on God – had to be first and foremost coupled with the trust that only comes from experiencing God in hard times.

David continued to learn of God’s provision and protection in the midst of battles and finding provision in the wilderness. Joseph learned the same things in the dark nights of a foreign prison where life was always tenuous. Both learned not to judge what God was doing by sight, but rather to live by faith and to know that God’s promises stand regardless of present circumstances. Both, in a miraculous turn of events became leaders over nations.

Saul was the antithesis of these two men. Israel shouted for a king and Saul was crowned in weeks instead of years. He began well but when the pressure was on, his faith faded quickly. He was political, insecure, and treacherous. All of those qualities clearly point to a lack of faith in God to sustain his throne and to give him victories.

In 1 Samuel 13, we are told of a time when the Philistines were gathering troops to attack Israel. Samuel told Saul not to go into battle but to wait at Gilgal for seven days, until he (Samuel) came and offered burnt sacrifices to the Lord who would then lead them to victory. On the seventh day, Samuel had not arrived. Saul’s troops were “quaking with fear” and were beginning to scatter. Saul then took it on himself to offer burnt offerings to the Lord, although he was not a priest. As soon as the smoke cleared the altar, Samuel arrived and rebuked him for his disobedience and lack of faith. Saul’s men were afraid because their leader was afraid. They had no faith that God would give them the victory because their king had no faith. Samuel declared that day, that God had taken Saul’s kingdom from him.

Saul became king before his heart was tested and this character was established. He did not go through the process of waiting and maturing, so he stewarded the blessing he received as an insecure, impetuous child. The blessings were then lost. Waiting on our prayers and dreams is hard, but if we embrace the process, God will train our hearts so that when the blessings come and the promises and prophecies are fulfilled, we will be able to steward them well. Growth is the goal. We feel the pressure of time, but God marks our days by growth not by the calendar.

When dreams you have offered up in prayers go unanswered, the answer may not be “No,” but simply “Not yet.” If the desire is a godly desire and it remains in your heart, continue to pray but be willing to wait and while you wait, invite God to work in you and cooperate with the work. Be sure that the desire hasn’t become an idol in which you are placing your trust for happiness and significance, but that you constantly affirm that God is your source. God can only entrust us with dreams we hold loosely, otherwise our faith will be in the dream rather than in him.

Be blessed today and do not despise the process and the circumstances that seem to point away from answered prayer. You are in training. Those that wait upon the Lord will renew their strength.