One of Satan’s primary tools against believers and unbelievers as well, is a spirit of offence against God. That spirit prompts us to view God as the source of our pain or loss and paints some episode in which we have been wounded as a betrayal by God. The offence often begins in the form of a question such as “Why did God do this to me?” or “Why did God allow this to happen?” Satan follows up with accusing thoughts suggesting that God doesn’t love us or that he broke his promise to us and therefore cannot be trusted.

This strategy shouldn’t surprise us because it was the first strategy of the devil recorded in scripture. It began with the question from the serpent to Adam and Eve. “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the Garden’” (Gen.3:1). I’m sure he was pointing out an abundance of trees filled with fruits and nuts as he said that. His tone of voice undoubtedly suggested that God was the sort of God who always withheld the best things from his people. When Eve replied that there was only one tree in the garden from which they could not eat and eating from it would produce death, Satan simply replied that they would not die which implied that God was a liar and could not be trusted. Once Adam and Eve accepted the premise, it was downhill from there.

One of the great lies that Satan promotes in the American church is that God has promised that if you serve him faithfully, your life will be trouble free or, at least, the troubles will be light and momentary. With that expectation, anytime loss or serious crisis arises, the believer must either believe that they are so defective that God can’t love them or that God has broken his promise to them. Either one of those conclusions moves us away from God.

The truth is that Christians will most likely face loss, woundedness, disease, and betrayal from other humans in this life. Jesus warns believers that in this world we will face trouble (Jn.16:33). The idea that God is supposed to totally protect us from all hurts while we live in enemy territory in a fallen world is an unbiblical expectation. Look at the “roll call of faith” in Hebrews 11. Some of God’s best people were delivered from trouble after a season of serious suffering while many others were ridiculed, rejected, tortured, flogged, chained, put in prison, stoned, sawed in two, put to death by the sword, and so forth. Jesus was rejected, beaten and crucified. Eleven of the apostles were martyred and the other was exiled to a lonely island. Hundreds or thousands of Christians today in the Middle East and China have been imprisoned, tortured, and killed for their faith.

As believers, we are often shaken with a diagnosis of cancer, a spouse leaving us for another, the unexpected or even tragic death of a loved one, the loss of a job, the failure of a business, a child born with a birth defect, a miscarriage, or the inability to have children altogether. At moments like these, we want everything to make sense as if that somehow would comfort us. I’m sure it makes sense from heaven, but not from this side of the veil. At times like that, we have to hold tightly to the things we do know to keep from being shaken by the things we don’t know. Paul said that we only know in part (1 Cor.13:9). We will have to be content to live with some mystery and some unanswered questions. If we had an answer for everything we would not need faith.

What we do know is that God is good. He is faithful. He cares and his grace will be sufficient if we allow it. We have to know that we are all subject to loss, pain, and betrayal in this world and for it to come is neither a sign of God’s disapproval or any broken promises. The promise is not for a pain free life but that he will walk us through the pain to some good that waits on the other side.

In Psalm 23, David did not say that God would take us around the valley of death but that he would give us hope and courage as we walk through the valley. Paul tells us that God is the God of all comfort who comforts us in our troubles (2 Cor. 1:3). It is in the midst of trouble that we experience his comfort. It’s not that God does not keep us from harm or from the evil one. He protects us more that we will ever know.

There are certainly promises of protection in scripture. But those are balanced with the realities of living in a fallen world in which God chose at the outset to honor the free will of men. That free will can have devastating consequences. By man’s decisions people are betrayed, drunk drivers kill the innocent, spouses enter into adulteress relationships, war’s take the lives of millions, and drug overdoses take the lives if the young. But it is also the very thing that produces real love, sacrifice, compassion, heroism, and faith. The church’s mission is to bring enough people under the saving grace of Jesus Christ that man’s free will becomes a blessing rather than a curse.

They key is to know these realities before trouble comes. If we are living with the paradigm that God only loves us if no pain comes our way, the devil will have no trouble getting us to be offended at God. The key is to know that we all live with the possibility that in this world we will have trouble. Some trouble will be short-lived. Some we will overcome in this life. Some we will gain victory over only in heaven.

Remember that Paul promised that “in all things we are more than conquerors” (Rom.8:17). However, we are conquerors because we can never being separated from the love of God no matter what. Whether in life or death, we will eventually win because our standard for winning is living eternally with Christ. That is where true victory lies regardless of the outcome of our battles in this world. I believe God wants us to live as overcomers in this world, pray for supernatural healing, raise the dead, and believe God for victories here and now. But those victories will usually come after some initial pain, sorrow, and battles. Some victories, however, will simply show up as victory over the grave and victory over the enemy as we refuse to fall to his strategy of alienating us from the God who has prepared a place for us and has promised us eternal life in a place without pain, hate, loss, and betrayal.

Life without pain will eventually be the full expression of God’s love for us, but only when we finally arrive home. Until then, the question is not whether trouble will come but only whether our faith stands when it does arrive. Jesus told us that we will have trouble, so we would not be surprised when it comes. When it comes, we should only hold God tighter and know that he is not absent nor uncaring but has already prepared what we will need to walk through the moment if we will walk with him.

When I first became a follower of Jesus in my early 20’s, I lived with the impression that all the neat, clean people that sat on the pews around me on Sunday mornings were sinless, happy, and healthy people who lived worry free lives of contentment. However, after decades of serving in churches, I can say unequivocally that my impression was wrong.

If we are honest, a great many believers today are saved but remain in bondage to sin, addiction, shame, and a host of other hindrances to their walk. The truth is that other than church attendance and having their sins forgiven, a large percentage of believers differ little from the people they work with or go to school with who do not have the Spirit of Christ living in them. Divorce rates in the church rival divorce rates in the culture at large. Christian teens seem to have little power over the cultural pressure to drink, experiment with drugs, or to be sexually active. A significant number of believers live on antidepressants, tolerate marriages dominated by anger and rage, live with bitterness toward the past, and are crippled by an overpowering sense of unworthiness and rejection. In short, they continue to live out their lives in emotional brokenness and bondage.

I’m not scolding these believers for not being “the Christians they should be.” Through the years, I have struggled with many of those issues as well. These believers are desperately looking for freedom and healing, but for the most part have not been able to gain victory over the issues that rob them of the joy and peace they long for.

Jesus declared that he came that his people might have life and have it to the full – abundant life. He also declared that he came to bind up the brokenhearted and set captives free. For many believers, there is a huge gap between the promises and the reality. Why? We can say with confidence that the shortfall is not on the part of Jesus for Jesus has done everything perfectly.

The truth is that, in many cases, these men and women have not been shown by their churches how to access the freedom and healing that Jesus promises. The majority of churches in America, offer their people the forgiveness purchased by the cross but not the healing and freedom. When confronted with brokenness and bondage, they send the children of God out into the world to find solutions. They are left to seek healing and freedom from those who often do not believe the core values of our faith or even that God exists.

Even when they are referred to “Christian counselors,” those good men and women have nearly always been trained to use the weapons of the world rather than divine weapons. There is something terribly wrong with that picture. Doing so implies that Jesus has no answers for the emotional suffering of his people, so we must look elsewhere. The weapons of the world can help but cannot go far enough for real victory. They tend to provide “coping skills” rather than lasting freedom.

A gospel that only gets us to a place of forgiveness, but does not radically change us through the healing and freedom that is ours in Christ is not the gospel that Jesus preached. When Jesus preached the gospel, there was always a demonstration of life-changing power with it. Paul pointed to this truth when he said, “Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe as you hold out the word of life” (Phil. 2:14-16).

Stars stand out in stark contrast to the darkness around them. Jesus himself declared that his followers were to be the light of the world. Those who wear the name of Christ should stand out in the crowd by their sheer “differentness” and have a testimony of his powerful work in their lives. Jesus spoke of being “born again,” not as figurative language for trying harder, but as a reality where something real and essential has been altered in everyone who comes to him. After a short while, that essential difference should become apparent, not a as a reflection of our efforts but as a reflection of the power of God working in us and Christ being formed in us.

If the world can provide the healing and freedom that Jesus promised his people, then much of what Jesus paid for with this suffering and death was unnecessary. Paul clearly stated that the wars we truly fight, must be fought with divine weapons rather than the weapons or strategies of the world (2 Cor. 10:4, Eph.6). Most churches have little idea about fighting in the Spirit and little access to those weapons. Therefore, their people continue to struggle with emotional brokenness and bondage.

We need a shift. We need to be willing to say that what we have been doing is lacking. We need to be willing to say that we have meant well but have missed something important in the scriptures because our fruit does not yet rival the fruit we see in the New Testament. My hope is that many senior pastors and elders will begin to ask for more, seek more, and risk more so that their people have access to everything Jesus purchased for them. The power of Jesus is immense and its impact should be profound and visable. Our people should stand out from the world and walk in victory over the things that burden most of the earth. It is not that we will be trouble free, but that the trouble will come from without rather than from within where Jesus lives – and that makes all the difference.

Poor theology breeds false expectations. False expectations lead to disappointment with God and that disappointment often leads to offense. I continue to run into believers who hold the assumption that God promised his people a “trouble-free life” if they are just doing the right things. So, if trouble comes while they are attending church, tithing, teaching Sunday school, and trying to live a moral life, they often feel betrayed by God. They often take up an offense towards the Father that sometimes lasts for years or a lifetime. They feel justified in rejecting God because, in their minds, he rejected them by breaking a promise – but it was a promise he never made.

It is critical that we are clear about life on planet earth. Think about every great man or woman of faith in the Bible. Without exception, in the Old Testament or New, they each faced hardships during some season of their life and most had numerous seasons of hardship. Consider Hezekiah. “Hezekiah trusted in the Lord, the God of Israel. There was no one like him among all the kings of Judah, either before him or after him. He held fast to the Lord and did not cease to follow him; he kept the commands the Lord had given Moses. And the Lord was with him; he was successful in whatever he undertook…In the fourteenth year of King Hezekiah’s reign, Sennacherib king of Assyria attacked all the fortified cities of Judah and captured them…This is what the king of Assyria says:…Do not listen to Hezekiah, for he is misleading you when he says, ‘The Lord will deliver us.’ Has the god of any nation ever delivered his land from the hand of the king of Assyria? Where are the gods of Hamath and Arpad? Where are the gods of Sepharvaim, Hena and Ivvah? Have they rescued Samaria from my hand?    Who of all the gods of these countries has been able to save his land from me? How then can the Lord deliver Jerusalem from my hand?” (2 Kings 18:5-7, 13, 32-35).

Scripture says that Hezekiah had a heart for God and served him faithfully in extraordinary ways. God was clearly please with him and yet in his fourteenth year as king, the armies of Assyria marched against him. Assyria was the dominant world power of the time and clearly out- numbered and out-classed Israel militarily. In the natural, Hezekiah could not stand against Assyria. Trouble had come to this man of God in an overwhelming way. Ultimately, God delivered Hezekiah and Jerusalem from the Assyrians when an angel of the Lord moved through the Assyrian camp at night and 185,000 Assyrian soldiers died mysteriously. In the morning, the remainder of the great army went home. But Hezekiah had to face his own fears, the political ramifications of a vast army camped around your city, the fears of his own people and the great probability of defeat and death within a few days.

There are numerous stories of God’s people being attacked by armies, falsely accused by political enemies, betrayed for money, facing famine, arrested by police, beaten and sometimes killed. Every apostle, except John died a martyr’s death and he died in exile. The letters to the seven churches of Asia in the beginning of the book of Revelation reveal persecution, imprisonment, and even death for other believers. Jesus himself told all his followers that in this world they would have trouble (Jn.16:33) and that persecution would always find the righteous in a world hostile to the things of God.

In addition, we live in a fallen world where the sin of man brought a curse on the natural world so that it does not operate as God designed it to operate before Adam sinned. As a result, floods, earthquakes, famines, blizzards, and tornadoes sometimes ravage the earth. On occasion, God uses those for judgment against nations he has warned time and again, but usually they just happen. Because of a fallen world and our fallen natures, disease crops up along with genetic abnormalities. Sometimes, those who serve God with all their hearts have to deal with what is common to man. God promises that in heaven we will face none of those things, but in this world we can get caught in a storm or have children with birth defects just like everyone else.

The difference for us is that then trouble comes we can call on the Lord. Sometimes he rescues us from the trouble just as it appears on the horizon. At other times, he simply helps us ride out the storm. Paul tells us, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God” (2 Cor.1:3-4). This is a revealing verse because it tells us that we experience the comfort of God in the midst of our troubles. If we were not in trouble, we would not experience his comfort and could not point others to his comfort in the midst of their troubles.

The revelation here is that we would never experience much of the nature of God and who he is for us unless we face trouble and hardship. We would never know him as the God who provides unless we faced a season of lack. We would never know him as our shield and high tower unless we were under attack. We would never know him as our healer unless we needed healing and the restorer of life unless we had lost everything. We would never know him as our vindicator unless we had been falsely accused. I’m not saying that God sends trouble so that we can experience him, but he doesn’t always insulate us from the effects of a fallen world and a fallen race. Facing hardship makes us stronger and gives us a revelation of who God is for us that we would never know otherwise.

When trouble comes, too many believers simply blame God for not protecting them from the same things that the world faces rather than looking for God’s provision and deliverance in the midst of trouble. If God had kept the apostles from facing a life-threatening storm on the Sea of Galilee, they would never had known the power of Christ to silence the storm nor would they have ever had a hint that he had given them the same authority.

Let’s face it, who needs faith when everything always goes your way? Who would ever struggle with their theology of suffering if no suffering ever came to believers? Who would ever grow in intercessory prayer if troubles never lingered? The truth is that hardship is a much greater catalyst for growth than ease. As you study the lives of God’s people, even when they were faithful, seasons of hardship and trouble came their way. God sprinkled in seasons of peace and plenty but difficult times came to all. We should not be surprised, then, that they come to us as well – even when we have been serving God with all of our hearts. When they come we have not been betrayed or forgotten by God. He is there for us and we then have the adventure of seeing how God will see us through each struggle.

When we trust God in the storm, we will not only learn great things about him but about ourselves as well. I think of the Lord of the Rings and the life of Hobbits who lived in a comfortable, country setting and never wanted anything or anyone to disrupt their peace or their pleasant routines. But those few who were forced to face dragons and orcs, discovered things they would have never found in any other way. God allows struggles to do the same work in us. When trouble comes, we don’t have to ask where God is because he is because he is always with us. We only need to ask what he would have us do so that we can see what he will do. That is the great adventure of faith.

And when they had mocked him, they took off the purple robe and put his own clothes on him. Then they led him out to crucify him. A certain man from Cyrene, Simon, the father of Alexander and Rufus, was passing by on his way in from the country, and they forced him to carry the cross. (Mk.15:20-21)

In three of the gospels (Matthew, Mark, and Luke) we find almost a footnote to the crucifixion. Each of the three writers mentions a man named Simon from Cyrene who was apparently not previously known to the disciples of Jesus. He was most likely entering Jerusalem for the Passover. The gospels simply say that he was coming in from the country and found himself caught up in the drama of the crucifixion of the Christ.   Because Jesus had been so brutalized by flogging and beating, he was struggling to carry his cross (probably the cross member only). The Romans, not out of compassion but in a hurry to get this done, compelled a man in the crowd to carry the cross for Jesus.

That is all we are told and yet Simon shows up in three gospels and his sons are mentioned in Mark. These gospels were written decades after the crucifixion so why would they remember this obscure man’s name or the names of his sons? The only answer seems to be that Simon and his family became believers that day and became faithful members of the Christian community where they were well known to the writers of the gospels.

It is possible that Simon had some knowledge of Jesus. Perhaps, he had heard him teach in the countryside or in some village. Perhaps, he had never heard of Jesus before that day. But something turned his heart to Jesus on the day of his suffering and death. My sense is that Simon stayed for a bit after delivering the cross. Sometimes when we are part of a tragedy – praying for someone who is dying, assisting at the scene of an accident, helping a stranger pickup debris after a tornado – our souls are somehow knit to theirs. I think Simon experienced that connection with Jesus and lingered by the cross. Perhaps, he asked a few people questions about this man who had been brutalized and sentenced to death. Maybe Mary had briefly thanked him for helping her son.

I’m guessing the demeanor of Jesus, even in death, seemed out of place. Surely a man whipped, beaten, and on his way to be spiked to a cross was a murderer or a terrorist. But he heard no cursing from Jesus and no threats. What he heard was concern for his mother and forgiveness for those who were doing this to him. Jesus probably spoke a few words to him on the way to Golgatha and certainly made eye contact, which always communicates volumes in the midst of tragedy.

The culmination of the experience, I believe, connected Simon to the other disciples in Jerusalem and the resurrection of Christ followed by Pentecost made Simon and his family strong believers. I think this demonstrates a couple of truths that we need to remember.

First of all, God is always working in the hearts of men for redemption and that work often occurs in the midst of injustice and tragedy. God doesn’t cause the injustice or tragedy but he uses it. In the midst of the suffering and death of his Only Begotten, the Father was still mindful of Simon and was working on his heart that day.

Secondly, how we handle suffering and hardship influences people for good or for bad. The way Jesus suffered with grace and with love drew this man to him and to the Father. The same can be true for us. How we handle personal injustice communicates to those around us who are seemingly detached and on the sidelines. Injustice at the office, bad calls on the basketball court, slander, rejection, etc. are moments when people are watching and listening. Grace, forgiveness, and love can touch the observers. How we deal with sickness, death, injuries and so forth have the same effect. Our testimony shines brightest when things are against us.

Finally, connection with other believers is crucial in transformative moments. People are most open to the gospel in seasons of transition and crisis in their own lives. To witness and touch something as horrendous as Christ’s crucifixion – the brutality, the smell of death and suffering, the stark indifference of Roman soldiers, the darkness that shrouded the day, the wailing of those close to the crucified – had to be traumatic for Simon and his sons.

That day must have raised deep questions for him. Other believers had to answer those questions. I am convinced that God connected Simon to some of Jesus’s disciples that day – maybe even the women who stood at the foot of the cross or John who was there as well. Perhaps, in astonishment he lingered and encountered Joseph of Arimathea and Nicodemus who came to take the body off the cross. But a few of the disciples reached out to him that day and their attitudes and actions did not cancel out what he had seen in Jesus.

Those relationships, forged in the midst of tragedy, drew him into the family of God where he and his children were well known even decades later. God uses everything for redemption. In the midst of crisis, injustice, or suffering don’t forget those who seem to be standing on the sidelines. They are still watching and what we do and say makes an impression that may draw them to Jesus just as Simon was drawn.

I don’t know about you, but when I became a Christian, I had a subtle belief (whether taught or assumed I don’t know) that Jesus would deliver me from all my troubles…before the troubles began.   I assumed that he would bless me with abundance and make the road of my life smooth – no detours, no potholes, no icy pavement, no carjackers. Now I know that my assumption was wrong and it really only takes a little biblical reflection to know that.

First of all, Jesus said, “These things I have spoken to you, so that in Me you may have peace. In the world you have tribulation, but take courage; I have overcome the world” (Jn.16:33). In the context, Jesus was telling his little band of followers (and us) that we will have trouble in this world – so that when it comes we should not be confused. But he also promises victory in that conflict. Think about it. Can you recall any major character in scripture whose life was not marked by battles and crises? It is the nature of living in a fallen world and of living in enemy territory.

I remember reading a book back in my college days entitled, “Man’s Search for Meaning” by Viktor Frankl. Frankl was a World War II Nazi death camp survivor. In his book he talked about the brutal environment of the camp – bitter cold, torture, starvation, and the constant threat of random execution. He also talked about the difference in those who eventually survived and those who didn’t. Frankl’s conclusion was that those prisoners who could find no meaning in their suffering did not survive. The idea of senseless suffering could only engender hopelessness and a sense of futility in lasting another day. Those who found some meaning in their suffering, could face another day and another, because they believed that something significant would come from their endurance.

Christians need to have some sense of meaning for the struggles they endure on earth as well. I have seen far too many Christians marked by hopelessness and despair when one of life’s ahrd seasons was prolonged. Of all people, we should be filled with hope and optimism eved in dark hours. I like how Graham Cooke gives meaning to all struggles at every level in the life of believers. Depending on what you are facing at the moment, his perspective might be helpful for you.

“Champions have a view of God that sets them apart in their day. They understand that all crises are part of a process that God has set in motion. They are not overwhelmed by the event because they are aware of the process that God is developing around them to train, equip, and empower them in his name. The process is always about our development into the place the Father has set aside for us in Christ. Through all the ups and downs of our life’s journey, when we commit ourselves to the process of God, we grow up in all things in Christ. Immature people only focus on the crisis itself, not the bigger picture of their own development….Process is where we discover God at work in our lives. It is where we submit to the work of his hands. Process is everything. There is no growth or maturity without it. If we do not submit to the process, the enemy will not submit to us. The process is the foundation for our obedience which results in our authority. There is no authority outside of our submission” (Graham Cooke, Qualities of a Spiritual Warrior, p.126).

Cooke’s point is not that God sends trouble our way, but that he uses the tribulations of the world to do two things: (1) Shape us into an accurate representation of Christ on the earth, and (2) help us discover who God is for us. When we submit to the work that God is doing on our faith and character and discover God’s provision and his character in every obstacle of life, we become more than conquerors. When crisis comes, our response should be to find God’s meaning in our struggle which then gives perfect meaning to the hardship. God never wastes an experience. The only question is whether or not we will waste it.

Believe me, I know this is not what you want to hear if you are in the midst of a painful season. In those seasons we just want out…now! And I am not saying we should gleefully bounce through every hardship as if suffering isn’t real. It is. But finding God’s purposes enables us to grow through the crisis rather than just enduring it. Remember the promise, “And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son” (Rom.8:28-29).

Again, God doesn’t send the troubles but when they come he uses them to perfect his people and to make them more like Christ. As we become more like him, our love increases, our peace increases, and our joy increases which is what all of us want anyway. Most of us want that in pill form rather than having to work for it, but is doesn’t come that way. So whatever your struggle is today, ask God to show you his hand and his purposes for you in this season. Finding meaning in your suffering redeems it and gives it value and that makes all the difference. Blessings today in whatever season you are walking through.