I’ve been reading through Judges, I & 11 Kings, and I & II Chronicles lately. A number of themes come out of that reading that are clearly warning flags for us. The first and most famous, of course, is the constant cycle of decades of sin, hardship as discipline from the Father, repentance when discipline became unbearable, redemption, blessing, contentment, apathy, decline, more decades of sin, and so forth. This cycle occurs over and over. As you read, you keep saying to yourself, “Why don’t you knuckleheads get it! Just keep serving God and life is good!” But they don’t. It is often because of generational changes in which the parents apparently did not do a good job of teaching their spiritual history or demonstrating faithfulness to their children. We should be aware of spiritual cycles in our own lives and guard against the downward slopes in our own spiritual histories.
Another recurring theme is disappointing and, perhaps, even disturbing. Numerous kings and spiritual leaders among God’s people demonstrated decades of faithfulness to God and often began with a strong revival and restoration of biblical worship. These men would often arise from a generation of parents who had forsaken God. They would seek God with all their hearts, restore the temple and the priesthood that was often is disrepair, destroy idols and shrines set up to worship false god’s, and renew a covenant with the God of Israel. Inevitably these leaders grew in international influence while their nation prospered and usually lived in peace.
The negative pattern is, however, that as these great men of God grew older, they began to lose their faith, walk in pride, and sometimes fell into hardcore idolatry. Even Solomon lost his way in his later years “For when Solomon was old, his wives turned his heart away after other gods; and his heart was not wholly devoted to the Lord his God, as the heart of David his father had been. For Solomon went after Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians and after Milcom the detestable idol of the Ammonites. Solomon did what was evil in the sight of the Lord, and did not follow the Lord fully, as David his father had done. Then Solomon built a high place for Chemosh the detestable idol of Moab, on the mountain which is east of Jerusalem, and for Molech the detestable idol of the sons of Ammon. Thus also he did for all his foreign wives, who burned incense and sacrificed to their gods” (1 Kings 11:4-8).
As they grew older and closer to death, we would expect these men of faith to have grown deeper in wisdom and to have drawn closer to God, but the opposite was true. Paul tells us in Romans 15:4 that all these things from the past were written for our learning so we need to consider these patterns of spiritual decline so that we don’t fall into the same traps.
So how could these great men who once spearheaded national revivals and won the approval of God get so far off track? The first caution seems to be that of the danger of blessings. It seems that prolonged blessings, which we all desire, are a two-edged sword. As God blessed these men with health, with abundance, and with peace on their borders they became spiritually apathetic. Extended seasons of blessings can create the illusion that we don’t really need God on a daily basis. When a vast Assyrian army is camped outside the walls of your city or an extended drought is destroying the countryside, it’s not hard to be motivated for a season of prayer and fasting. But when life is good year after year, a man or a woman must be careful to keep the spiritual fires burning. Apathy can creep in when no crisis arises to shake out the cobwebs.
It’s amazing how many mature men and women of God who have served him so well for years begin to coast when they see the finish line rather than kicking hard to finish well. Americans, especially, seem to have a retirement mentality not only from a career but also from the kingdom. Suddenly pleasure, recreation, and grandchildren take all precedence over the things of God. Those things aren’t wrong in themselves but still must stay secondary to the call of the kingdom. What if the apostle Paul had decided one day that it was time to retire; he had done enough; the apostolic life had been hard and he deserved some years of ease before stepping across the finish line? Clearly, as you read his letters, that kind of thinking never entered his mind. He continued to set spiritual goals. He continued to press forward to the finish line. He continued to put himself in situations where he needed God to succeed or even survive. I don’t think we need to put ourselves in life threatening situations but we can certainly put ourselves in places of praying for healing, ministering deliverance, counseling a broken marriage, leading a small group, sharing the gospel, and so forth that keeps our need for the presence of God on the front burner. A choice to keep that built into our lifestyle that would be wise as we grow older.
A second reason for these men falling away was simple pride. After a few years of growing influence and success, these men began to believe that their achievements had come by their own brilliance and hard work. They simply forgot that the source of all that they possessed and all they had accomplished was God. When God sent his prophets to rebuke their pride, the response was rarely repentance but most often anger, arrogance, and even violence against the prophet. In many cases, their pride and arrogance cost them and their children the kingdom.
We need someone in our lives to speak truth to us at the first sign of losing our sense of humility and dependence on God. We need those people and should invite those people to watch our lives and speak to us quickly when they see something in us that is misaligned with the heart of God and the mind of Christ. We need to make sure we always have someone in our lives that we can be honest with about our hearts, our thoughts, our motives and our fears. A wise person will invite input and have a person who can sit in as counselor and prophet in his or her life. If you don’t have that person, pray for God to show you that person. You may not like what you hear but it is a safeguard. The kings of Israel apparently surrounded themselves with people who would not dare speak the truth to them when needed and it cost everyone dearly.
The third primary reason for these men of faith failing in their later years was ungodly relationships. Many fell into idolatry because of the influence of foreign wives they had taken or foreign alliances they had made with other kings and nations who did not serve the God of Israel. Compromise sneaks in little by little until the compromise feels normal. When it feels normal and acceptable, then we are always asked to compromise a little more. At some juncture, there seems to be a tipping point in which we give in altogether. Satan, of course, is in the middle of every compromise. He is willing to be patient and subtle. If it takes twenty five years for you to reach your tipping point he is willing to wait.
The truth is, as we get older, we have less energy to sustain long-time battles. In an effort to find peace, we may begin to compromise with the person or the issue (the devil). We need to make intentional choices upfront about our relationships because they will inevitably influence us. I want to stay surrounded by people who are passionate for God and uncompromising in their love for him. On days when my passion for the Kingdom is waning, I can get some heat from these people and rekindle my own flame.
I need to make an intentional decision about who I want to be as I get older and how I want to finish my race. Having decided that, I need to surround myself with people who will help me be that person and help me finish a strong race. Even Solomon was drawn into idolatry through the influence of his foreign wives in his later years and finished his race very poorly. Such misalignment rarely happens over night. It is usually a long process of small compromises. Because of that, we must choose our relationships carefully…especially spouses and best friends. If we have made a poor choice in the past that continually pushes back against our faithfulness to God in the present, we must be even more intentional about connecting with spiritual people whose influence will help us stay on course. Some relationships may need to be jettisoned. Others will have to be managed. Remember, Jesus said that anyone who does not love him more than mother, father, brothers, or sisters is not worthy of him. We cannot put earthly relationships ahead of Jesus without putting our spiritual lives at great risk.
These lessons from the Old Testament are cautionary. We do have the Spirit of Christ in us but they had the Spirit on them. We are susceptible to the same missteps and same failings. Wisdom demands that we acknowledge that we can all be stupid at any given time so we should build walls of protection around us ahead of time. We should make decisions, choose lifestyles that still need the Lord daily, and become very intentional about relationships that will work to keep us on track and out of a spiritual ditch.
A time of reflection, evaluation, and decisions about these things might be in order at the beginning of 2017. A great goal would be to finish as a Paul not as a Solomon. At the end, Paul was able to say, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing” ( 2 Tim.4:7-8). Blessings and intentionality in the year to come.