I was browsing Facebook last night and was once again reminded of how enamored we are with our celebrities. Singer, actors, athletes, politicians, billionaire businessmen, television personalities, etc. are everywhere. They look bigger than life and project an image of significance, happiness, and competence. People fawn after them, want to be seen with them, and want to be like them. Even preachers and worship leaders can carry celebrity status in our culture and some hunger after that.
The ideal of celebrity status is a real trap. Sometimes I wonder if our friends who show selfy after selfy and personal video after video online are somehow trying to mirror celebrities and find their own sense of significance. When we constantly seek our significance through the eyes of others, it usually suggests that we carry very little of that within us. As a reformed people pleaser, I know that we can become a slave to the evaluation that others place on us. We only feel valuable, loved, or competent when others tell us that we are those things or act as if we are.
So, we seek success and accomplishments at any cost. We look for our fifteen minutes of fame wherever we can find it, and we hurry off to interact with people who help us feel good about ourselves. We thrive on the affirmation but it drains out every night and we start the new day in search of the approval of others again. It is an exhausting hamster wheel. For Christians who suffer from this lack, there is a real danger of seeking the approval of men rather than God. When we are in that place, we have yet to receive a revelation from the Spirit of God’s love and his fatherly approval and delight in who we are. In that condition, we are easily tempted to compromise with the world in order to gain some level of acceptance and approval from the world. I often cringe when well-known celebrities come to Christ and Jesus becomes their new banner. Even Christians then begin to fawn over them and invite them to speak in large pulpits. But they have the notoriety before they have the Christian character to stand in public places for Jesus. How many quickly fall or get caught up in some sin…discrediting the discipleship of sincere followers.
The cult of celebrity is seductive and deceptive. Very few who live in that world are actually happy and content except for the moment when awards are given or recognition and adulation is poured out over them. But again, that feeling of significance, worthiness, and contentment bleeds out overnight. I remember a segment in Philip Yancey’s classic book, The Jesus I Never Knew, in which he talked about hundreds of celebrities he had researched and interviewed as a journalist.
His observation was that, as a whole, he had never met such an empty, self-absorbed, addicted, tormented group of people who were nearly always in therapy, always moving on to the next relationship or next marriage, always having to be in the spotlight to feel any sense of importance, and always afraid that the next day they would be forgotten by their admiring but fickle fans. From the outside, this group looks like everything we think we would want in life to be happy, but on the inside they are desolate and desperate.
He contrasted them to a group of missionaries he had also interviewed who were preparing to go to desolate places in the earth to translate the Bible into the native languages of isolated people groups they would attempt to befriend. They were preparing in a hot, dry location in the southwestern U.S., living in tents with little to no creature comforts available. Most people would never know their names or know what they did with their lives. Many would live and die without the world taking any notice.
Yancy said he was prepared to admire these young missionaries, but was not prepared to envy them. But, he said he found in this group a selflessness, a joy, and a sense of purpose and heavenly significance he had never seen among the world’s elite. This group had found the approval of a heavenly father and the joy of living a life focused on the significance of others instead of themselves. In caring more about others than themselves, they actually found their value and the contentment Hollywood and Nashville will always long for. That is why Jesus said it is more blessed to give than to receive.
If you are in search of a residing sense of value and significance, let me invite you to look at the cross rather than American Idol and to seek the presence of God rather than the presence of celebrities. God is not opposed to fame, but he invites us to be famous in heaven for our humility and service to others rather than seeking to be famous in the world. Let me invite you to pray consistently for the Holy Spirit to reveal to your heart the immense value that God sees in you and the immense approval he feels for you. In seeking the approval of God there is real freedom. In seeking the approval of men, there is only bondage. We need to be clear about whom we are trying to please.
Blessings in the one who has written your name in the palm of his hand.