Unimaginable Tragedy

We have all been shaken by the tragic events spawned by a  hundred-year flood in the Texas Hill Country this past weekend. We are especially impacted by the death of so many children and by the fact that so many were attending Christian Camps.  How do we reconcile those losses with the love and protection of God?

The enemy will take every opportunity to smear the name of God and his Son Jesus because he “allowed” these events to take place.  Satan will attempt to persuade people that God “took their children” or that he sent the flood. He will do so publicly and also in our hearts.  I can’t answer every question about these losses, but let me share some thoughts about what has happened.

First of all, when questions arise, we must begin with what we do know and believe.  Foundationally, we know that God is good and that he is love.  God so loved this world that he gave his only Son. Scripture does suggest that God sometimes takes the righteous to keep them from a great evil that is coming.  But, by and large, a loving God does not take children from their parents. Because so many died, we put this under the microscope and call such events an “act of God”…at least the insurance companies do.  But is it an act of God?

Our initial response might be that because God is sovereign, he should have stopped the floods, miraculously saved every child from the waters, or at least should have caused something to alert everyone in the path of the torrent. God is sovereign, but in hjis sovereignty he has place limits on his own control.  Remember, he entrusted the earth to man and chose to give man free will. There is clearly a down side to free will.  Man can choose sin and rebellion.  Those choices can hurt the innocent. Adam and Eve’s choice has negatively affected every human since then.

When a man chooses to drink and drive, he may kill the innocent.  When a man chooses to fire a gun into a crowd, he may also kill the innocent.  When a man chooses to molest a child, he leaves lifelong scars on some child who did not deserve that fate.   God does not approve nor support these acts of sin, rebellion, perversion, and violence, but he honors the free will he gave to man.

When the innocent are wounded or die, we need to know it is sin and the rebellion of man that take the innocents away, not God.  Yes, that’s true for men but what about natural disasters -floods, earthquakes, tornados, hurricanes, etc.  When Adam and Eve sinned, their sin produced a curse on the ground itself.  In other words, the natural environment would no longer cooperate with man nor operate under his authority.  What once partnered with Adam to produce abundant fruit, suddenly opposed him. Sin damaged the environment so that thorns and thistles grew up and man would have to scratch out a living through painful toil.

When God brought Israel out of Egypt, he declared his covenant to them. Faithful obedience to his commands would bring blessings even related to weather.  The rains would come at just the right times and the temperatures would foster healthy crops. Insects would not devour their produce.  Rebellion, on the other hand, would bring drought and famine and hordes of insects.  The decisions of man to obey or rebel would directly affect the ecosystem – the natural environment. 

You might say that natural disasters are directly proportional to the wickedness of mankind.  The more man sins, the more destruction we will see in the world – both by man and by nature.  When man chooses sin and rebellion, he chooses natural disasters.  Unfortunately, the innocent may be swept away in those situations just as innocents may die at the hands of drunk drivers.  Galatians declares that whatever a man sows, that is what he will reap.  If he sows to the flesh he will reap destruction.  If he sows to the Spirit, he reaps life. In the wake of his decisions, others will also reap what he sowed for good or bad. 

Sin introduced death to the world.  Sin continues to bring death and destruction as its consequence.  God takes no pleasure in that equation but holiness and righteousness demand a consequence for rebellion.  In his love, God provided a solution to sin…the death of his Son. But until the world, by and large, accepts that sacrifice, sin will produce its consequences and many innocents will suffer because if it.

In the end, that curse will be done away with. For now, God carefully watches over the death of his saints and the innocent and the followers of Jesus are not left to suffer but are ushered into Paradise. The God of all comfort works to comfort those who are stung by the consequences of sin and tells us that we will still grieve, but not as others who have no hope.  Those families who follow Jesus will be joined together again.  But for now, we are not always exempt from the struggles and pain of life in a fallen world. 

Why were some saved and others lost?  I don’t know the heavenly calculus for that.  We rejoice with those who are saved and grieve with those who lost loved ones.  In the end, God will make everything new and those who live with Jesus will never face death, wounds, sorrow, betrayal, or violence again.  But in these moments when Satan wants us to blame God, let’s remember who God is and where death and destruction actually come from. In the meantime, we will pray for those who have been devastated by their losses. 



Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of allcomfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.  2 Corinthians 1:3-4

The holidays can be a wonderful season filled with good food, good memories, and the joy of family and friends.  They can also be a time of stark pain for those who have just lost loved ones or who have suffered some other trauma.  The holidays highlight life as it should be. But they also magnify the empty places around the table, the pain of a serious diagnosis, or the loss of a job when you could least afford it.

I have been part of many funerals that fell in November and December… just a few days ago a five-day old little girl. Unfortunately, the feelings of pain and sorrow will be anchored to holidays for years to come. With Silver Bells and Silent Night will also come painful memories and questions about what might have been.  

In those moments, the passage above can be enormously helpful.  We are reminded that God is a God of compassion and comfort.  Compassion means that he feels our pain. He feels with us. He has genuine empathy for what we are going through.  Perhaps, he put himself in our place as he watched his beloved Son ridiculed, spit upon, suffering, and nailed to a cross.  If we think God sat on his throne watching what was going on emotionally detached, we have missed the point entirely. I am convinced he suffered with his Son. Jesus wept at the grave of Lazarus, not because Lazarus was gone but because he felt the pain of those around him.  He is a God who can be touched by our pain.

The word translated “comfort” comes from the same word used to describe the Holy Spirit –  paraklete.  It is a word that means one who is called alongside to comfort, encourage, give solace, console, or alleviate sorrow. It is one who gives emotional support in times of loss or crisis. On dark nights we need a God of compassion and comfort.  Sometimes he shows up in the form of people who care about you so please don’t turn them away in your sorrow or isolate yourself.  Sometimes he shows up as the Holy Spirit speaks hope and comfort to your mind and heart.  When you are hurting…ask for God, look for God.  He is around you if you have eyes to see and ears to hear.  

Paul goes on to say that we are to comfort others with the comfort we have received.  I realized years ago that our healing is never complete until we help others heal. The thing that qualifies us for that ministry is our own suffering.  When real trauma visits us, we often ask “Why?” We wonder why God would allow such a thing in our lives or in the life of someone we love. We rarely get a clear answer to that question, but God does tell us how we can redeem the pain and give it meaning.  We do so by helping others through the same briar patch we just passed through ourselves.  

This holiday season may be a painful reminder to you of what you have lost…a loved one, a marriage, a career, your health, or your purpose. You may be a few years away from helping others. But the God of compassion and the God of all comfort, is nearby for scripture declares that God is close to the brokenhearted (Ps. 34:18). Lean on Him.  Go to church.  Call a friend who understands where you are at.   Don’t isolate yourself because that makes you an easy target for the enemy. There may be moments when you wonder if God actually loves you. He does, but most often he will love you through his people.  Plan ahead.  Put yourself in places where you can be encouraged and supported.  Most of all, cry out to God when the pain rushes in.  He is not detached and he is not far away.